英国奇老头“悬壶济世”有奇招 曾与两千女性做爱
中新网1月30日电 据马来西亚媒体报道，在港口城市布里斯托尔有一位现年61岁的英国老者，他因能通过特殊方式为人治病而被许多人奉为神明。据传，这个其貌不扬的老男人曾和2000多名女性做爱，并治好了许多顽疾，包括癌症。
报道称，这位和女人睡觉就能治病的“奇人”被许多信众称作“swamiji”，就是印度语当中的“精神导师”。
他的工作似乎是众多男性都羡慕的，但他本人绝不靠长相来骗取女人的欢心；事实上，他灰白而坚硬的胡须、骨瘦如柴的身体、牙齿脱落的口腔、呼吸中足以令人晕倒的烟臭都让一般女子避而远之。
“人们以为我这么做，是为了享乐。”这位老者曾愤愤不平地说，他可不是为了性才这么做的；和他做爱的女人很多都是没有男人愿意碰的那种。她们年老色衰，又肥又胖，令人难以产生性欲。
他曾治疗过一对患有爱滋病的夫妇，鼓励他们用特殊的方法做爱，结果令两人成功转为HIV病毒携带者，而不是爱滋病人。
他表示，这种特殊的治疗方法是从喜马拉雅山的僧侣那里学来的。
I'M MARRIED TO A SEX GURU Jan 27 2004
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http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/By Clare Goldwin
JACK Bailey doesn't beat about the bush. Fixing me with a penetrating stare, he asks, "Do you masturbate?" It's hard to know where to look, let alone how to answer him.
"That's the problem with westerners," sighs Jack, 61. "Mention sex and everyone has a problem with it.
"We are taught to think it's something dirty so people put up barriers, but that's just society's conditioning."
To neighbours on the council estate in Yate, near Bristol, where he lives, Jack is just a dishevelled looking man.
But to his many devotees around the world he is a leading tantric sex guru, who claims he "heals" women of terminal diseases such as cancer by sleeping with them.
Jack spends up to eight months of the year away from home, jetting off to the US and India, where he is known as swamiji, which means "spiritual teacher", or the "white guru".
While Jack's job is one men dream of, he looks like most women's worst nightmare.
With his wispy grey hair, a body as scrawny as the man in the Mr Muscle adverts, a toothless smile and a smoker's cough, he's hardly God's gift.
It's hard to believe he has slept with around 2,000 women in a "career" spanning 40 years. "People think I do this for pleasure," he says, indignantly. "But I am not in this for the sex.
I SLEEP with women that other men would rather die than touch. They are middle-aged, often overweight and the least desirable - one was 25 stone and cross-eyed.
"They are not young women in short skirts. People believe it's an excuse for sex, but it's always a sacred and spiritual thing."
With a little black book as thick as the Yellow Pages and a job that needs him to fly off for a sex session at a moment's notice, you would assume Jack is single. And you'd be wrong.
Amazingly, his wife Claire puts up with it all. Looking far younger than her 43 years, it's hard to believe she's a mother of seven - or that she fell for Jack, who is 18 years her senior.
Just as incredible is the story of how Claire, whose parents were in the Salvation Army, became his biggest devotee.
They met 13 years ago at their local adult education college. He was taking IT classes and she was on a computer course.
She had two young children and was suicidally depressed following a bitter divorce and years of battling an eating disorder.
"When I first met Jack and found out what he did, I thought it was all made up," Claire smiles.
"I thought it was just a way of getting me into bed, a chat-up line. I was like, 'No way'."
They got talking during coffee breaks, and Jack stunned Claire when he told her she was ill and in danger of permanently damaging her stomach.
"He was spot on," she says. "I had suffered from bulimia for 10 years and was still throwing up after every meal and taking handfuls of laxatives a day.
"I was amazed he had picked up on it as it was something very secretive. Nobody knew, not even my parents.
"Then he said, 'I can heal you'. I thought, 'Oh yeah?' and asked him how. He said, 'By going to bed with you'. I was so shocked I wouldn't talk to him for three weeks.
"Physically, he wasn't my cup of tea, but I was attracted to his enthusiasm, sense of humour and charisma. Then one day I told him I couldn't afford to keep going to the cafe and asked if he wanted to come back to mine.
"I was so naive that I didn't even think about sex and I didn't click when he said that he could start my healing now. In the car he said, 'We'll go to bed when we get back to your house', and I nearly crashed.
"He told me that even if I wasn't healed I'd have a good time. But that I needed help and if I didn't get it I would be dead within five years.
"I felt very insecure about my body and wasn't in a frame of mind to hop into bed with anybody, but he was very gentle and said we could just lie together and talk if I wanted.
"But I had an amazing time.The first session lasted for three hours. It was wonderful. He took me to places I'd never been before. It was a Friday and I didn't make myself sick for the whole weekend. I thought maybe his way of healing did work.
"Afterwards I couldn't get enough of Jack. We were having sex several times a day and every night. I began having orgasms through penetrative sex, which had never happened before.
"We had one session when my children were away that lasted from Friday night to Monday morning. We'd go for an hour and half with 15- minute breaks in between. But over the next six weeks I was healed."
Jack adds: "Men in the west have been brought up to believe they can't go on as long as women. But a tantric practitioner can have 10 orgasms one after another. It's not uncommon to have a nine-day tantric session.
PEOPLEforget that sex is all about your partner. I have complete control over my body - I have never been unable to perform."
Not long after that Jack moved in and three months later Claire fell pregnant with the first of their five children - even though doctors had said she might never have another baby because of the damage her bulimia had done to her body. They had settled into domestic bliss when Jack dropped abombshell.
"He said he was seeing someone else," Claire recalls. "I fell apart. He said he was healing them and it involved sex.
"Although I knew he had been doing this for years it still came as a shock. I was in tears for a week. I felt betrayed and it took a lot of reassurance and discussion before I could accept it.
"The only way I could deal with it was to think that it had worked for me. I realised how selfish I was to stop others being healed in the same way. How could I deny him to other women?
"It took 10 years of trauma, of feeling hurt and worrying that he'd find someone more exciting, before I came to terms with it.
"I don't stop him doing it - this is all part of my spiritual growth. People think it's normal to react in a jealous way, but it's not. It's all part of society's conditioning."
Jack's theory about tantric sex is that it is nothing to do with lust and all about using sexual energy to achieve your desires.
"I am always up-front about sex," he says. "I'm not embarrassed about it. People don't associate healing with sex, but this has been a method for years in the East.
"Meditation evolved through sex - it's the point when your mind stops and you become free.
"To let your mind drop you can do many things, you can bungee jump if you wish. But the best way and the thing that we can all do is have sex.
"When you get to the point of sexual orgasm your mind stops and you sense pure consciousness.
"When you are in that state of being you have the power to change things, to heal yourself. And the best way to get in that state is by using sexual energy."
Others might argue that Jack is more interested in getting women to drop their knickers than in their minds. But he insists, "My theory is this: why do humans have more sexual energy than just what is needed for procreation? The energy must be there for something else.
"Most tantric practises involve sex. We have a couple from Delhion medical record who had Aids. I encouraged them to make love in a particular way. Now they are simply HIV positive, they don't have full-blown Aids any more. It's medically proven... All those who follow the course are healed."
Jack may boast that he is unshockable when it comes to sexual matters, but he gets all coy when it comes to the number of women he has slept with. He claims to have hundreds of thousands of devotees around the world, but sleeps with only a fraction of them - about 50 a year.
"Sometimes I'll go on a trip and I won't sleep with anyone, and sometimes I will sleep with 12," he says. It's easy to be sceptical about Jack. He seduces women who are at their most vulnerable, who are critically ill or suffering from lowesteem, like Claire. More alarmingly, he claims he has never worn a condom in 40 years, though it's not something he would recommend to those who have not been trained in tantric ways.
"I cannot contract or get a sexual disease," he boasts. "There is a method of injaculation that I can use which draws sperm back into the system and sterilises it before it comes out again.
"I have never had anything nor got anyone pregnant accidentally. And look at me - at 61 I am totally fit."
He claims he learned his craft after spending time in Tibetan monasteries as a child with his Anglo-Tibetan grandfather. He also says he has been a spiritual advisor to celebrities including Princess Diana, Michael Jackson and Whitney Houston.
"I say to women: if you have a problem that can be dealt with by someone else, such as a doctor or a counsellor, go to them," he says. "Sex is just an option, it's not the only thing and it's not as if I am a sex God. Face it, who would sleep with me unless they were desperate to be healed?"
BEING a tantric sex guru has not made him rich either. "Look at us," he says. "We live in a council house and drive a car that is 13 years old.
"If people want to pay for me to fly out to them, or make a donation to a charity I support, that's fine, but I don't accept payment. We live off what I earn as a writer. There are some charlatans who are in it just for a bonk, but I'm not one of them. It's done out of love."
Even so, Jack has had problems with jealous husbands. He says when he visits Delhi and Mumbai he needs 20 policemen to protect him from Hindu fundamentalists. Meanwhile, Claire is left to look after their five young children. Last year she had a serious operation while he was in India. And she has to play hostess to the women he brings to their home to complete their treatment. Because of her relationship with Jack, Claire has also lost many of her friends and was estranged from her parents for 10 years.
"They didn't trust him and said how could I be with someone who was nothing short of a prostitute," she says. "They didn't understand."
But she does seem genuinely happy and stresses she has not suffered a recurrence of her bulimia or depression since they met. I ask if they ever have sex just for fun, or if Jack is always on the job, and with a giggle Claire confirms that they do. It's almost enough to make a girl look at him in a different light. But then he tells me my left leg is 2cms shorter than my right one, and that he has just the way to cure my crooked spine...
